Another kind of intimacy this author wouldn't understand. This book made me angry and sad and tired because it perpetuates the gendered stereotypes of women not liking sex and men not liking intimacy. As if sex is something we need to use as a bargaining chip to get the other and not something we just enjoy doing or that it's possible to enjoy them alone, together and with different people. I suppose as a bisexual women I also ought to set aside for a moment that this only focuses on stereotype straight relationships but as someone who grew up on a social housing estate with a complex community and family, I can't set aside that this is only relatable to white middle class America and maybe not even then. I get the impression the author came with her own women are from Venus, men are from Mars biases, gathered up examples from her white middle-America patients who of course can afford therapy and started making wild extrapolations on everyone's relationships.
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Weber, Ph. She specializes in the impact of culture on lady identity and relationship development. Jill writes a blog for Psychology Today and Huffington Post. Designed for more see www. The addition of contributing family pattern descriptions and self-assessment questions adds concentration and utility to this admirable book. Many of us be unsuccessful to recognize that the come back with to this question resides contained by ourselves. Weber positions herself at the same time as a clinical psychologist who is married and a mother.